THE WOMAN WITH A LIST vs THE WOMAN WITH INTUITION
Almost every woman has a list. It could be a written list or a mental list. This list is the most secret and heavily guarded in her heart. Only the most trusted and selected few are allowed to know what's in it. Perhaps her best friend, her mother or someone special to her heart. After all, she needs some advise and inputs too if her list is something fair, practical and not out of this world. This list will go through a lot of revision and major changes and the woman grows wiser and mature. Because as the woman grows older, her preference and impression of an ideal man also change.
Many woman won't admit, but good looks or at least a pleasant looks almost always land on number 1 or number 2 on their list, specially for the young women. Being Friendly and Funny are always in the number 2 to 3. While being smart and sensible are sure to land on number 4 to 5. Being rich is sure to place in the last for young girls. After all, young girls just want to have a good and fun love life with the man of their choice.
But most women are not aware that somewhere written or programmed inside her genes or instincts also exist a list that make her easily fall in love with a man. She will only discover this list as she starts to interact with more men. She'll realize that certain facial and physical features of a man makes her heart beats faster and makes her knees weaker. She'll also discover that certain kind of attention, care and attitude of men towards her makes her wants to be with the man all the time. She also learn that certain habits, way of thinking and philosophy of men are more attractive to her than others. Many women will just follow their heart and instincts. Some will resist what they feel and stick with their logical mental lists. A few will get confused and get stressed with the conflict of her logic and instinct.
,br> Not all women who find their ideal man based on their list will be happy. Some will learn that compatibility of personality matters more in the end. Many of those who follow their instincts will be surprised how on Earth she got lucky to find the man that makes her happy against her mental and logical list. But happy or not, their lives must go on. Some who are unhappy choose to leave their men and live alone or with their kids. Living with someone who makes your life miserableness is like living in hell. Better live alone and than live with someone in suffering.
,br> Still having a list of one's ideal man is better than not having one. But ignoring one's instinct and gut feel is something every woman should not do. After all, women's instinct have guided women in their survival for several thousands of years. Why not let that instinct help you choose the right man for you?
Many woman won't admit, but good looks or at least a pleasant looks almost always land on number 1 or number 2 on their list, specially for the young women. Being Friendly and Funny are always in the number 2 to 3. While being smart and sensible are sure to land on number 4 to 5. Being rich is sure to place in the last for young girls. After all, young girls just want to have a good and fun love life with the man of their choice.
But most women are not aware that somewhere written or programmed inside her genes or instincts also exist a list that make her easily fall in love with a man. She will only discover this list as she starts to interact with more men. She'll realize that certain facial and physical features of a man makes her heart beats faster and makes her knees weaker. She'll also discover that certain kind of attention, care and attitude of men towards her makes her wants to be with the man all the time. She also learn that certain habits, way of thinking and philosophy of men are more attractive to her than others. Many women will just follow their heart and instincts. Some will resist what they feel and stick with their logical mental lists. A few will get confused and get stressed with the conflict of her logic and instinct.
,br> Not all women who find their ideal man based on their list will be happy. Some will learn that compatibility of personality matters more in the end. Many of those who follow their instincts will be surprised how on Earth she got lucky to find the man that makes her happy against her mental and logical list. But happy or not, their lives must go on. Some who are unhappy choose to leave their men and live alone or with their kids. Living with someone who makes your life miserableness is like living in hell. Better live alone and than live with someone in suffering.
,br> Still having a list of one's ideal man is better than not having one. But ignoring one's instinct and gut feel is something every woman should not do. After all, women's instinct have guided women in their survival for several thousands of years. Why not let that instinct help you choose the right man for you?
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