WHEN THE WOMAN IS SILENT, IT'S TIME TO LISTEN
Many "experts" and "psychologist" in the past already tried to decode the puzzle of a woman. Among the topic they refused to tackle is how to interpret the silence of Woman. I think it was wise for them not to. After all, there are no words to analyze, observe or interpret when a woman is silent. But for the wise and well experienced souls, they know that when a woman is silent, something is about explode. Not a balloon, not a fire cracker and not even a dynamite. It's more than that. You could say it's the end of the world. Because a nuclear bomb is about to wipe everything!
But women have deep reserve of strength and patience that you rarely see them seriously silent. Women love to talk just about anything except perhaps politics and numbers which put them to sleep. Women are expressive by nature. They display affection to their loved ones without hesitations. But they are expert in disguising their feelings to strangers, suitors and secret crushes. All in all, women are talkative, noisy and jolly together with friends, family and people they trust. So when they are silent, something must be wrong. Very, very wrong. And it's time to sit down and listen to them.
Yes, listening to a silent woman is very important. It's like helping someone who is literally drowning. She must be drowning of anger, frustration and problems. She needs someone who is willing to listen. Someone she can trust. Someone sincere and willing to feel what she feels. When you do that to her, she will be grateful and willing to return the favor anytime soon.
Too bad most of us Men are not good listeners. It's men's nature. Unless it's basketball or anything related to sports or business, men are normally not interested. It takes maturity, sincerity and true love for a man to listen a woman. Talking about matters of emotions puts men in awkward position. But men are trainable over time. If only women can tell men directly what they want, life will be easier. But Women are simply not good in expressing their true feelings when it matters most. That's the very reason why many women ended up marrying someone not the man of their dreams. They let their man of their man of their dreams pass them by without any attempts to get noticed. They choose to be silent and die unnoticed like a puzzle. They are like sleeping beauties waiting for their heroes to rescue and kiss them. Only the man who can understand the woman's silence deserve her true love and care.
But women have deep reserve of strength and patience that you rarely see them seriously silent. Women love to talk just about anything except perhaps politics and numbers which put them to sleep. Women are expressive by nature. They display affection to their loved ones without hesitations. But they are expert in disguising their feelings to strangers, suitors and secret crushes. All in all, women are talkative, noisy and jolly together with friends, family and people they trust. So when they are silent, something must be wrong. Very, very wrong. And it's time to sit down and listen to them.
Yes, listening to a silent woman is very important. It's like helping someone who is literally drowning. She must be drowning of anger, frustration and problems. She needs someone who is willing to listen. Someone she can trust. Someone sincere and willing to feel what she feels. When you do that to her, she will be grateful and willing to return the favor anytime soon.
Too bad most of us Men are not good listeners. It's men's nature. Unless it's basketball or anything related to sports or business, men are normally not interested. It takes maturity, sincerity and true love for a man to listen a woman. Talking about matters of emotions puts men in awkward position. But men are trainable over time. If only women can tell men directly what they want, life will be easier. But Women are simply not good in expressing their true feelings when it matters most. That's the very reason why many women ended up marrying someone not the man of their dreams. They let their man of their man of their dreams pass them by without any attempts to get noticed. They choose to be silent and die unnoticed like a puzzle. They are like sleeping beauties waiting for their heroes to rescue and kiss them. Only the man who can understand the woman's silence deserve her true love and care.
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