MEETING HALF WAY : IS THE ONLY WAY TO FIND GET TO "FOREVER"
The is no such thing as perfect love or perfect relationship between a man and woman. What separates a successful love affair from a failure is the willing of both parties to compromise. Give and take. Patience. Willingness to sacrifice. Willingness to forgive. And most of all, a constant drive to express one's love to the other. These are the foundations of a lasting love relationship. Without them, love love affair will last forever.
Women are the most vocals in terms of complaints, discontentment and disappointments about men in most relationship. Men are "self-centered", "Lazy", "Child-like", "insensitive", "frail to temptations" and "easy-go-lucky". Women will say. And they are true most of the time. But many women choose to embrace and accept these "normal" imperfection of men. They are the women that will most likely find true happiness, being compromising individual. Because the truth is, women are not perfect themselves. Rarely you can read articles about men complaining about their women. Most men choose to ignore women's imperfection and go on enjoying with their lives. But women themselves knew they have some "craziness" within them that men needs to handle. Being a "nagger", "over-jealous", "uncaring", "too possessive" and "moody" are just a few of what men needs to contend with women.
The point is, both men are women have their own inherent flaws. No amount of education,debate and explanation can erase that fact. The only antidote to cure the imperfection of both sides is to accept them, endure them and find ways to focus more on the good side of every relationship. After all, a woman and man needs each other. If you think otherwise, better live single forever. Life will be simpler, uncomplicated and straight forward. The sad truth is that, most of those who live single will sooner or later realize this: Having a crazy partner in life is better than having no perfect live alone.
Women are the most vocals in terms of complaints, discontentment and disappointments about men in most relationship. Men are "self-centered", "Lazy", "Child-like", "insensitive", "frail to temptations" and "easy-go-lucky". Women will say. And they are true most of the time. But many women choose to embrace and accept these "normal" imperfection of men. They are the women that will most likely find true happiness, being compromising individual. Because the truth is, women are not perfect themselves. Rarely you can read articles about men complaining about their women. Most men choose to ignore women's imperfection and go on enjoying with their lives. But women themselves knew they have some "craziness" within them that men needs to handle. Being a "nagger", "over-jealous", "uncaring", "too possessive" and "moody" are just a few of what men needs to contend with women.
The point is, both men are women have their own inherent flaws. No amount of education,debate and explanation can erase that fact. The only antidote to cure the imperfection of both sides is to accept them, endure them and find ways to focus more on the good side of every relationship. After all, a woman and man needs each other. If you think otherwise, better live single forever. Life will be simpler, uncomplicated and straight forward. The sad truth is that, most of those who live single will sooner or later realize this: Having a crazy partner in life is better than having no perfect live alone.
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