MEN ARE THE PREY, WOMEN ARE THE HUNTERS
In the game of courtship and love, Men likes to think they are the hunters. They see them selves as the tiger who stalk their pray, observe them from a distance and make the kill at the right time. Simple as that. Men love to hunt multiple prey simultaneously too. Once they catch them, they play with it, enjoyed it and choose the one that makes them happier and comfortable. After they get bored, they look again for another prey to hunt. Men don't do it as a matter of pleasure or logic. They do it as matter of genetic program. After all, men are programmed to spread their genetic legacy to as many women as possible.
But in the real world of courtship and love, women are the real hunters. They are much more advance, subtle and thorough. Yes, thorough. Because women are trying to get their catch that last a life time. Women don't hunt for fun. They hunt to secure her future and her future children's future. She must "hunt" for a "prey" that can help her raise her kids in the future. Women are hunting for a true "Partnership". When they hunt, they plan to get the perfect catch in just one try. Again, women don't do hunting for fun. They do "hunting" to secure her future children's survival.
Long before schools were built and psychologist become a profession, Men and Women already played the exciting game of love and courtship. Men's goal are generally to catch more, enjoy the moment and go on. Women's goal are generally to catch the perfect prey in one try, if not, they try once more and hope to accomplish the goal in second try. But the main difference in method and technique of hunting between Men and Women lies in the inert intelligence. Men are primitive hunters and more physical. Women's method are more subtle and sophisticated.
Men stalks and attack their prey using physical method. They use actions, use good looks and tricks to get the attention of Women. On the other hand, Women wait and observe their prey with minimum fan fare. They ignore the prey as if they're not interested. They lay the trap like an expert. They examine they prey and refuse to attack it immediately. They wait. They observe. They validate. They like to make sure they are going to catch the right prey. Because catching the wrong ones is catastrophic for her and her future children.
Yes, the game of love and courtship cannot be learned from the books, video or advise from experts or elders. It comes from our instincts written in our genetic program to assure the survival of human race. That skill is already in each one of us the moment we are born. Those who use their brain and logic in search of a lifetime partner are bound to fail. So next time you hunt for the best partner in life, don't think. Just feel and rely on your instincts. It's much more reliable than the stupid advises of so called experts whose main objective is to earn money and get famous.
Happy Hunting!
But in the real world of courtship and love, women are the real hunters. They are much more advance, subtle and thorough. Yes, thorough. Because women are trying to get their catch that last a life time. Women don't hunt for fun. They hunt to secure her future and her future children's future. She must "hunt" for a "prey" that can help her raise her kids in the future. Women are hunting for a true "Partnership". When they hunt, they plan to get the perfect catch in just one try. Again, women don't do hunting for fun. They do "hunting" to secure her future children's survival.
Long before schools were built and psychologist become a profession, Men and Women already played the exciting game of love and courtship. Men's goal are generally to catch more, enjoy the moment and go on. Women's goal are generally to catch the perfect prey in one try, if not, they try once more and hope to accomplish the goal in second try. But the main difference in method and technique of hunting between Men and Women lies in the inert intelligence. Men are primitive hunters and more physical. Women's method are more subtle and sophisticated.
Men stalks and attack their prey using physical method. They use actions, use good looks and tricks to get the attention of Women. On the other hand, Women wait and observe their prey with minimum fan fare. They ignore the prey as if they're not interested. They lay the trap like an expert. They examine they prey and refuse to attack it immediately. They wait. They observe. They validate. They like to make sure they are going to catch the right prey. Because catching the wrong ones is catastrophic for her and her future children.
Yes, the game of love and courtship cannot be learned from the books, video or advise from experts or elders. It comes from our instincts written in our genetic program to assure the survival of human race. That skill is already in each one of us the moment we are born. Those who use their brain and logic in search of a lifetime partner are bound to fail. So next time you hunt for the best partner in life, don't think. Just feel and rely on your instincts. It's much more reliable than the stupid advises of so called experts whose main objective is to earn money and get famous.
Happy Hunting!
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